When a man asks you out on a date, he’s asking you to date him because he’s interested in you.
And when he wants you to be his girlfriend, he is asking you for the best possible way to make that happen.
And that’s why he’s going to give you a few tips to make your first date with him as enjoyable as possible.1.
Tell him why you want to date.
When you ask for his date, don’t just tell him what he needs to know.
Tell it all.
What makes you happy?
What interests you?
What do you want?
The more you can tell him about yourself, the better you’ll feel.2.
Say it’s for your own good.
If you want a date that doesn’t come across as forced, try saying that you’re going to date because you want the best.
That way, if the guy says he’s having trouble finding a girl, you can say, “No, I’ll date you if you just tell me what you want.”3.
Don’t get defensive.
Don, don, don.
This will make your date feel like he’s being reasonable.
It’ll make him feel like you want what he wants, too.4.
Don’T give him the finger.
Don’t tell him, “I’m sorry, but I’m not interested in this woman.
I’m having a great time and I want to spend time with you.
But I’m going to have to take you to the movies or something.”
That doesn’t make him happy.
Instead, try, “Look, I don’t want to make you uncomfortable, but if I can help you out, I’m happy to.”5.
Keep your feelings out of the conversation.
If he’s not interested, he won’t be interested in talking about anything else.
Instead, make it about the dates you’ve had.
If he’s curious about your relationship status, ask him about the previous relationships you had.
If you’re curious about how long you’ve been together, ask how long he’s been together.
If it’s about the date, make sure he understands that it’s your first time, too, and you should treat it like a date.6.
Keep the conversation personal.
Don`t be the one to ask him to tell you about how you feel.
Keep it about what makes you feel good.
You can also ask him if he’s happy that he found a date for you.
If a guy says something like, “Well, I want you to know that I’m very happy to date you, but just so you know, we’re not dating each other.”
That’s the first step.
And it might be the first thing he does when he’s alone with you, too: He’s going out of his way to ask you to tell him how you are.7.
Tell them that you don’t think it’s a date at all.
If they tell you that they don’t feel like dating a woman, it’s because they want you, and they’re not interested.
And don’t be offended by this.
The guy is genuinely interested in dating you.8.
Say that you want him to feel comfortable.
If the guy is making you feel uncomfortable, tell him that you are willing to take him out on dinner or to have dinner with him.
Don´t get defensive if he doesn’t agree.
He’s not your enemy.9.
Say you want it to be a casual affair.
Don`t ask him for a commitment.
Just say you want them to date together.
Don�t say that you`ll be a party to anything they do.
If your date says he`ll just come over for dinner or something, that’s fine.
Just don`t get too excited about it.
Dont get overly excited.
Tell the date that you can do anything that makes you and them happy, and if he says he wants to go, go.
You have to enjoy the date.10.
Don’t make jokes about how they are dating a married couple.
Don don don don’t make any assumptions about who they are.
DonDon’t say, I know you’re a man, but you seem like a nice guy.
You don’t have to be.
Don’s date will be the happiest one of his life, he said.
That means a lot to him.
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